Friday, November 21, 2025. It’s hard to believe it’s Kislev – but here we are. All the bright maple and ash leaves are down and the steadfast oaks and beeches remain – russet, brown, rust-colored against the gray of the sky and tree branches.  In the middle east, quite a different scenario is happening – harvest is over, the rains have started, and the soil is damp, – and now seeds are sown for the new crop.

Kislev brings two themes:  light, with the coming solstice and the beginning of Hanukah, our festival of lights; and dreams, as the Torah portions we read this month are full of dream stories:  Jacob and his dreamlike wresting with the angel, and Joseph, whose dreams separated him from his family, connected him to fellow prisoners, and ultimately redeemed him in a connection to Pharaoh that allowed him to renew familial relationships. 

Last month we talked of the breaking down that happens in dark Cheshvan, as the light of summer recedes into late fall.  We turned inward after the intensity of the High Holy Days to internalize the promises we made for a renewed life.  We drew parallels to the metamorphosis of a caterpillar,  breaking down into molecules inside the chrysalis.  Scientists tell us that some structures remain – imaginal discs containing the elements that retain memory and are the starter cells for the new creature[1]. During Kislev, our discs of memory and intention begin to form bones – still internally, creating a new framework for the coming year, for making our intentions a reality. This is a dreaming process, carried on under the light of Kislev’s moon. May we find hope as the light begins to grown at Hanukah, and as our ideas for a New Year begin to frame a new reality. Chodesh tov! —K. Miriam

Our next Rosh Chodesh walking meditation will take place on the winter solstice, honoring the month of Tevet, Sunday, December 21, 8:30 am.  Rain or snow or shine! Contact us for location.

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[1] See https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/caterpillar-butterfly-metamorphosis-explainer/

Thursday, October 23.  Wet, dark and cold – we bundled up and weathered the rain, reminded that winter – the six months of cold and darkness we have in the Great Lakes – is upon us. At Sukkot, just a week or so ago, we replaced our liturgy’s prayers for summer dew with the prayers for winter rain. In the Middle East, there are also summer and winter – very different from here, but still marking the rhythm of the seasons.  Harvest gives way to resting the soil this month, praying for rejuvenating rain.

As in Scandinavian “mys”, or “hygge”, it’s a time for nesting in warm homes with a fire and a good book.  Cocooning, you might say – which is entirely appropriate for our return to Genesis this month, and the story of Noach, who with his family and a host of fauna, survived the Great Flood in a “cocoon” of an ark.  We talked of the destruction of a moth or butterfly in its cocoon, turning to liquid nothing, and then re-forming into a fully rebuilt and beautiful creature.  So a world, according to our sages, a world of moral decay, was destroyed in the Great Flood, so it could be rebuilt.  Rav Sholom Noach Berezovsky, a Chasidic rebbe and scholar of post-holocaust times, noted however that the source of destruction was not G-d, but the world itself.  G-d merely stepped back, and the world imploded on itself with a force of water from above and below, a consequence of its own depravity.[1] Only then could the world be rebuilt in love for a new and beautiful era.

So we  understand perhaps the destruction that is happening around us, and see in it hope for a better world. Cheshvan is a month without holidays, the beginning of the darkness of winter, a time for introspection and cocooning.  May we use it to regroup, come close to G-d and family, and restore our inner hope and resolve to build a better world. Chodesh tov! —K. Miriam

Our next walking meditation will honor the month of Kislev, Friday, November 21, 8:30 am, rain or snow or shine!  Contact us for location.

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[1] See R. Sholom Noach Berezovsky, Netivot Shalom, https://korenpub.com

Monday, September 22, 2025.  We met a day before Rosh Hashana to welcome the New Year and the High Holy Days.  The weather was warm and the sky was clear – early fall in the Great Lakes is wonderful, with the lake keeping temperatures moderate and the leaves just beginning to turn. In the middle east, fall and harvest are upon us – grapes, figs, olives, and pomegranates all are brought in as we approach the holiday of Sukkot.

As we enter the New Year, we reflect on our lives and how we can do better in the coming year. We can think about this via the Jewish tradition of asking three questions, inspired by our sage Rabbi Hillel of the Talmud.  He asked,

“If I am not for myself, who will be for me?

But if I am only for myself, what am I?

If not now, when?”[1]

At our synagogue at Slichot, we asked ourselves three questions to help us to review and contemplate a New Year of promise:

What did I do this year that I am proud of?

Where did I fall short, or miss the mark?

What can I do this year in response to these questions?

Arlene Goldfarb, in a pandemic blog, asked:

Will I have enough time?
Will I be able to have a positive influence in the great awakening?
Will I be able to quiet my mind?

Or

Who are we as a people?
What do we stand for?
How do we want to be remembered?[2]

What are your three questions, as you enter the New Year? – may it be one of health, happiness, and hope.  L’Shana Tova! – K. Miriam

Our next Rosh Chodesh walking meditation will honor the month of Cheshvan, Thursday, October 23, 8:30 am.  Rain or shine! Contact us for location.

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[1] Rabbi Hillel (Pirke Avot 1:14)

[2] See: https://arlenegoldbard.com/2020/09/18/the-three-questions-pandemic-edition/

Monday, August 25, 2025.  It was the first cool morning in a while – we were wearing jeans and sweaters, standing under the shelter during a brief shower.  The big rains came last night, enough to flood the creeks. This morning, the air felt fresh and damp, and the leaves were dripping. Flowers are abundant, beginning their transition to fruits.  The birds are beginning their migration – the local bird monitor crew is out doing its work – so many species in this marsh!  We are blessed to live in the Great Lakes with all of this fresh water and greenery.

Our thoughts this month turn to the great work of the month of Elul, preparation for the High Holy Days to come.  We began this process last month with the breaking down of our spirits at Tisha B’Av – now comes the next step, evaluation of our year and beginning to frame up how we would like to do better.  Rabbi Rachel Barenblatt, in her Velveteen Rabbi blog, suggests that the cycle of the Jewish year spirals upward like the center of the Guggenheim Museum – always returning to the same place, but also always in a new one.  We are not the same people we were last year, and next year we’ll be different yet. [1]

We talked of the immanence of G!d during this season, so close to us as we challenge ourselves to see our worst and our best.  Rabbi Barenblatt reminds us of the vision of our sages, that the majestic G!d the King leaves the palace and enters the field, to walk beside us daily as we make ourselves vulnerable.  She suggests we talk with G!d – the Divine, the Universe, as you prefer to name it – while walking outdoors or sitting in our homes or our cars.  We also talked of the murkiness of this month, like the swollen creeks full of sediment around us – we enter the season without clarity, not knowing where we will wind up – being open to the process, and appreciating the companionship of the Divine and each other as we go.  May all of us find this process meaningful and hopeful – a good Elul to you!  Chodesh tov! – K. Miriam

Our next Rosh Chodesh walking meditation will honor the New Year, Rosh Hashanah, and the first of Tishrei. NOTE THAT WE ARE MEETING A DAY EARLY THIS YEAR, MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 22, THE DAY BEFORE ROSH HASHANAH, to allow for holiday observance the next day.  Rain or shine! Contact us for time and location!

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[1] See https://velveteenrabbi.blogs.com/blog/2025/08/inthefield.html

Shabbat morning, July 26, 2025.  The weather was warm and humid and the landscape lush with greenery, like a rainforest!  It must be summer in the Great Lakes!  We had just had a major storm the night before, so the streams and marsh were swollen and overflowing, the water brown and rushing.  The contrast of our temperate climate with the heavy heat and dryness of the middle east is especially strong in summer.

Av is the second month of the Hebrew calendar year’s summer, following on Tammuz with much the same intensity of heat and light.  However, there is a difference: At Rosh Chodesh Tammuz, we are preparing to descend into the flaming underworld of summer, leading toward the beginning of the Three Weeks of mourning starting with the fast of the 17^th of Tammuz, commemorating the siege of Jerusalem.  At Rosh Chodesh Av, we are in the midst of the Three Weeks, headed toward the lowpoint of the Jewish Year, Tisha B’Av, the 9^th of Av, when we fast and mourn, remembering the destruction of our Temples in ancient times and many other catastrophes.  And then – the darkness begins to lift.  By Tu B’Av, the 15^th of Av, we begin to experience some joy again with the Jewish Valentine’s Day, an auspicious day of love and matchmaking.

Rosh Chodesh Av has additional significance:  in the Torah, it is noted that Aharon (Aaron, Moses’ brother), who traveled with Moses and the Israelites in the desert, died on the first day of Av.  Aharon was the quieter older brother to his “flashy” younger brother: perhaps wiser, perhaps having experienced the loss of his sons – a bit more sober, a better listener, a better sharer of love.  Ben Elterman, a blog writer, notes that Aharon worked for peace among the Jews, which was hard to come by even then among the travelers in the desert.  This peace was more than a “period of no war” – it was an active peace where people collaborated to listen to each other and create harmony among themselves, making peace, Oseh Shalom. [1] Our sages attributed the loss of the temples to dissension and conflict among the Jews.  There is something we can learn here – may we all seek peace actively and by listening, across all of our worlds. – K. Miriam

Our next Rosh Chodesh walking meditation will honor the month of Elul, Monday, August 25, 8:30 am.  Contact us for location.

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[1] See https://sixdegreesofkosherbacon.com/2025/07/24/aharon-died-on-the-first-of-av-where-did-the-love-go/

Friday, June 27. Summer is in full strength and bloom – walking among the trees and over streams soon after a major storm, we sense the lushness of greenery, and the abundance of water.  The air is warm and grows hot as the sun rises.  What a beautiful morning! – we lingered a little longer in our walking meditation and our reflections.

In the middle east, this month opens the hottest season of the year.  The sun beats down, and people, plants and animals suffer in the heat. Along with the heat comes a sense of abandonment, mourning and catastrophe.  This month we mark the 17^th of Tammuz, the beginning of the “3 weeks” leading to Tisha B’Av, which commemorates the fall of Jerusalem.  We therefore associate the month with sadness and despair. One of us brought a source from The Well[1] which talked about the importance of crying as a way of cleansing our hearts – a foundation for hope, ultimately.  The destruction of the summer is clarifying as we begin our journeys toward renewal, the High Holy Days in our sights.

The heat of summer also brings clarity of vision.  We are encouraged to see ourselves and the world as they really are, as distinguished from how we wish they would be. Another of our sources was a brief dvar by Rabbi Michael Unger (private Youtube)[2] where he talks about how good people can do bad things, and bad people can do good things.  None of us is perfect or immune from imperfection; nothing is all one way or all another.  We are real, and human, and complicated.  Perhaps the hopeful sign here is that all we need to be is “good enough”, allowing others to be the same.  May we enter the challenging summer journey with grace and forgiveness, for ourselves and for others.  Chodesh Tov! – K. Miriam

Our next Rosh Chodesh walking meditation will honor the month of Av, Saturday, July 26, 8:30 am.  Rain or shine!  Contact us for location. 

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[1] See www.atthewellproject.com

[2] See https://bethelheights.org/

Wednesday, May 28, 2025.  The weather was cool and misty, the vegetation was lush, and the birds were abundant.  Our Great Lakes woods become rain forests at this time of year.  We reflected on the welcome greenery after a long winter and cold spring.  In Israel, the extensive summer harvest season is well underway, with barley first harvested around Passover, and the first wheat crop coming in at the time of Shavuot early in Sivan, leading all the way to the grape harvest at Sukkot in the fall.  Here we’re on a different schedule – if you look closely, you’ll see the trees budding with tiny flowers and even some fruits and seeds. Our growing season is short, and the harvest season is even shorter.  We hope to drink up their many blessings while they are with us.

The theme for the month of Sivan is growth and creativity, and the area of healing is the subconscious mind.  We focused on purifying our hearts and minds in Iyyar – now this month is our opportunity to deepen, to strengthen our faith in and relationship with the divine, to become aware of our deepest needs and thoughts – and in so doing, respond to the universe with creativity.  At Shavuot on the sixth of Sivan, we celebrate our receiving of the Torah and its revelation of divine inspiration and guidance.  May we benefit from it well this year, and counter the evil around us in creativity, spirit and action. Chodesh tov! – K. Miriam

Our next Rosh Chodesh walking meditation will honor the month of Tamuz, Friday morning, June 27, at 8:30 am.  Rain or Shine! Please contact us for location.

Tuesday, April 29.  Well we made it – spring has finally arrived.  The air this morning was warm with a blunt breeze – and the woods were green and busy.  There were deer in the parking lot, a groundhog just out of its burrow munching greenery, and birds, birds, birds. At the least, we heard cardinal, chickadee, song sparrow, goldfinch, redwinged blackbird, red-bellied woodpecker – and a brown-headed cowbird! 

For contrast, we noted that in the middle east, sowing season is over and we are approaching first harvests.  Soon Shavuot will be upon us.  The long harvest season will go over many months, much longer than we have here in the Great Lakes, stretching from Shavuot to Sukkot.

Meanwhile, this month of Iyyar is one of purification and the healing that can accompany it.  We talked about how every lunar month seems to be a “going inward” of a different sort – from transforming anger, to contemplating inner light, to listening to our hearts.  In this month, perhaps in honor of the Torah portions we read, Leviticus with its definitions and rituals of purification – we seek to purify our hearts and minds.  Our source Mindy Ribner advises us to take stock of our inner world, root out what does us no good, and strengthen the patterns and thoughts that are healthy.  Acknowledging that the purification process starts with cleaning our homes for Passover, we talked a bit about what purifying our hearts might mean – focusing on what matters, finding meaning in our daily lives, separating ourselves from the digital, spending more time in nature.  May we all find ways to purify and heal this month.  Chodesh tov! – K. Miriam

Our next Rosh Chodesh walking meditation will honor the month of Sivan, Wednesday, May 28, 8:30 am.  Rain or shine!  Contact us for location.

Nisan 5785      ניסן

Sunday morning, March 30, 2025.  After a blustery couple of weeks, we were rewarded this morning with warm, if wet, weather.  The air was fresh and there were green tips and buds, and birds singing a symphony.  Yes, spring is actually coming, we are sure of it now!  We can see the end of the long winter ahead of us. We talked about the weather in the middle east, where spring is in full swing – trees are in bloom – olive, pear, apple, and cherry – and the almonds are setting fruit.  The first crops of the year – barley, peas, lentils and vetch — are actually being harvested, and millet, sesame, and vegetables are being sown. 

Nisan marks the turning of the year – according to our sages, from Rosh Hashanah onward we have six months of material and earthliness – and starting in Nisan, we have a second New Year as we turn over into transcendence.  There is an energy of renewal and pending freedom, as we head toward Passover in just two weeks. 

This morning, we noticed a family of deer, the young male’s head heavy with antlers, striding through the marsh. We noticed faint stretch marks in some trees’ bark, as they wake from winter slumber and begin their year’s growth.  And we noticed the breath of the world, as the warm breeze filled our lungs and reminded us of the Breath of the Divine Name, yud-hey-vav-hey.  As we walk together toward Passover freedom, may we overcome the constrictions that bind us, bear well the stretch marks that we may experience as we grow, and sense the breath of the Source of Life as we move into freedom. Chodesh tov, and Chag Sameach! — K. Miriam

Our next Rosh Chodesh Walking Meditation will honor the month of Iyyar, Tuesday, April 29, 8:30 am.  Contact us for location.

Shabbat morning, Saturday, March 1.  This morning it was biting cold, too cold for much quiet contemplation – snow on the ground, and it felt as if we had made no progress out of this winter since last month.  As always at the end of the season, our patience grows short. But wait:  there are birds.  And a patch of blue sky shows through. And there is Purim, our joyful holiday, to look forward to. And next month will be Nisan, and spring truly will be upon us.  There are all of these good things to celebrate.

It has been a tough month for several of us in our family lives, and there are the larger issues hovering over us ominously as well.  How on earth to be joyful, as we are commanded, in Adar?

Abraham Joshua Heschel, in speaking of the Sabbath, writes of Shabbat holiness, which is present every Friday night and Saturday from sundown to sundown, whether we acknowledge it or not.  “Even when men forsake the Sabbath, its holiness remains.”[1]  It is just up to us to tap into it. Similarly, our sages say that Adar’s joy is present, flowing throughout the month,– we just need to allow ourselves to be part of it.  As we walked in meditation, we noticed the blue sky faintly visible through the clouds – the brightness is up there, all day, no matter the weather here below .  May we all find ways to tap into holiness, and joy, and the blue sky this month.  Chodesh tov! – K. Miriam

Our next walking meditation will honor the month of Nissan, Sunday, March 30, 2025, 8:30 am.  Contact us for location!

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[1] Abraham Joshua Heschel, The Sabbath, NY: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 1951.p. 82